Secret of dating
As a rule, you should be elusive enough to keep the hunter hunting and accessible enough for him not to quit. RELATED: 7 relationship mistakes smart people make Society basically dictates that a woman should have a man on her arm. Don’t let this pressure lead you to become the type of prey that lies at the hunter’s feet. Do you remember me talking about how men had to court women in order to gain their good graces?
That means for you should to continue to live your life. This additional pressure has changed some rules of the game. Well, it’s tough for men to do the courting if women are pursuing them with pit-bull tenacity. A man will never respect you when he senses you’ll stop at nothing to gain his heart.
Once a woman passes the age of thirty or so, she is expected to be married and have a couple of crumb snatchers. I know the word court is very old-fashioned and not necessarily hip, but it’s what you should require before you give him your seal of approval. I would love to leave that point right there, but I know I’ve got to go a little deeper.
What society thinks of you can best be revealed by the dumb questions people ask. A woman’s aggression works against a man’s basic blueprint. Never make life-changing decisions in order to be with a man you’re not married to.
Show him you’re willing to stand by his side — to a point.
If your man constantly asks to “hold” some money or expect you to pay while on dates — RED FLAG.8.
If he approaches you with a flattering, yet rehearsed line — RED FLAG.9.
Instead of those flags just sitting there while you ignore them, let me wave a few of them for you.
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