Relationship advice dating younger men
He is with you to share, to love, and to spend quality time together. As “cougars”, it’s easy to get carried away with our own agendas completely disregarding what the “cub” brings to the table. Like when you're walking home drunk and he's like "Hey, we should eat something, lets stop at this place that's famous for their sour-cream-and-chili-covered hot dogs wrapped in bacon!!" And you're like, how do you not realize my stomach is a shitty used car that'll break as soon as you drive it out of the lot?? He can drink until he passes out and barely feel it the next day, because #youth.
Questions like: Being married to or dating a younger man is a learning experience.
Like "playing the triangle in a Mississippi-by-way-of-Brooklyn jug band," or "Kickstarting a docudrama series he plans to direct, produce, write and star in" or "enjoying a long and fulfilling career that is also his passion and will never require him to do anything he doesn't want to do." Oh, dear. His lack of direction inevitably leads you to start sounding like his parents — sometimes at inappropriate moments, like when your top is off. He still wants to have intellectual discussions with you over dinner because he misses the ones he had in college.
Sorry, I want to smash my face directly into my fresh rosemary pasta without discussing the recurring motifs of Francis Ford Coppola films. He can eat whatever and expects you to also be able to eat whatever.
The older woman might want to listen to all the classicals, but the younger man will rather be at a place where there are vibrant and energetic songs.
You have to adjust to his youthful exuberance such as clubs geared towards youngsters.