Dating versus hanging out
If your main source of meeting people is through your friends and their friends, then things can be really ambiguous.That workmate you decide to go for lunch with, or the friend a friend you meet at party and decide to go see a film together, or, in my life, it's usually a comedian you've gigged with a few times who you decide to get a drink with. You get a text around 7 p.m on a Friday night, asking if you want to grab a bite to eat.The person on the other end says they’ll pick you up in an hour. Because of modern technology trying to differentiate between dating and hanging out hasn’t become an easy task.But there are other ways to meet people that aren't so transparent.
Apparently 69% of the respondents are at least somewhat confused about whether an outing with someone they’re interested in is a date or not.You wouldn't think you'd have to wonder, "Am I on a date or not? But sometimes, even when you are there you're still not sure.", but I can't count the number of times friends or I have talked about meeting up with someone and the inevitable "So... Granted, online dating and dating apps makes things way more clear. It’s not terrorism, economic recession, global warming, or gasoline prices that could hit 10 bucks per gallon by the time you’re done.What does it really mean when someone asks you to "hang out"? In closing, I think about the painful times in our lives. You should know whether or not it's a romantic thing before you get there.You're on there for dating or hooking up, and although I've heard of a few cases where people end up making friends on there, you're almost certainly going on a date.But 80% agree that a date is “a planned one-on-one hangout,” almost one-quarter (24%) also think it is “a planned evening with a group of friends,” and 22% agree that “if they ask me out, it’s a date.” The survey, conducted in September, was commissioned by dating websites Christian and JDate.com, both still don’t include gay or lesbian daters.I decided to do my own quick survey about what constitutes a date and hanging out. I mean I instant messaged one of my closest guy friends to get his opinion.It allowed you to see how you treat others and how you are treated in a one-on-one situation.Asking someone if they would like to go out with you is dating.