Dating two guys at once
Content is not intended to replace or serve as substitute for professional consultation or service.Contained observations and opinions should not be misconstrued as specific counseling advice.Because I want to, before it gets serious, and the first guy wasn't that great in bed... Having Open Communication Pursuing What You Want Setting Boundaries Community Q&A Dating more than one guy at a time is a relationship choice that can be fulfilling and fun for women.Then, before you know it, you’ll go from having two men, to none.There are two basic things you have to understand about dating a) people love to talk b) everyone seems to know everyone. I’m not saying that’s right or wrong, I’m just saying that’s how it is.To do it right, you need to be fair to the guys you’re dating and to yourself.
I know it’s tempting, after months of patronising “I’m sure you’ll find someone” comments from the entire dating world to let them know that your prospects have increased by 200% in two days, but for now, don’t. There’s no coming back socially from “Kristen, is 100% sure that one of these two men are the baby’s father”.Nothing makes a man madder than finding his girl is seeing another guy and his wallet was thrown out the window. No counseling or psychotherapy advice: The Site does not provide psychotherapy advice.The Site is intended only for use by consumers in search of general information of interest pertaining to problems people may face as individuals and in relationships and related topics.I have also met another guy who I’ve only been out with once, but he seems like a nice guy also. Swapping germs and spreading them around the town is not a good girlfriend move. If either guy asks if you are exclusive with him, be honest.And if one of them begins to spend money on you like you are an exclusive girlfriend, start splitting the costs. You are in control here and you control the pace of both relationships.If you live in fear and insecurity, you are going to meet someone exactly like you.Part of working on your inside is going out and meeting lots of people.For the love of God don’t date men with the same name. If either of these two guys have any mutual friends on Facebook, the mission must be aborted immediately.The last thing you need is to accidentally text one guy thinking he’s the other. That mutual friend is the key to your whole undoing. Eventually Preferably, before it gets to the point where you have two guys calling you their ‘girlfriend’. But then when has that ever stopped a woman from getting angry or upset?Filed Under: Love & Lust Many girls would find the thought of dating two men at once ridiculous. If men can successfully multi-date then honestly, how hard can it be?Not because of any moral issues it might raise, but because most of the time, finding one descent man is hard enough… Being single is sometimes like waiting for a bus that is taking its good old fucking time to come, then just when you’re about to give up hope, two pull in at once. Going out for all these dinners is bound to make you put on weight.