Dating a guy with no car

Just don’t do it to the point that he comes to expect it.

What you’re ultimately trying to accomplish is to show him that you’re a very enterprising woman, which reveals to him that you’re more of a benefit to his life than a liability.

If he approaches you with a flattering, yet rehearsed line — RED FLAG.9.

If he says he has a job but can’t articulate exactly what it is he does for a living— RED FLAG.10.

If he drives an expensive car, but rents an apartment — RED FLAG.3. If your man wears more than one ring per hand, more than one bracelet per wrist, and more than one necklace per neck — RED FLAG.5.

If he is always the one who’s overdressed for the occasion — RED FLAG.6.

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If your man is living in his mother’s house for more than a couple of months — I give a small grace period — RED FLAG.2.

As a rule, you should be elusive enough to keep the hunter hunting and accessible enough for him not to quit. RELATED: 7 relationship mistakes smart people make Society basically dictates that a woman should have a man on her arm. Don’t let this pressure lead you to become the type of prey that lies at the hunter’s feet. Do you remember me talking about how men had to court women in order to gain their good graces?

What society thinks of you can best be revealed by the dumb questions people ask. A woman’s aggression works against a man’s basic blueprint. Never make life-changing decisions in order to be with a man you’re not married to.

Again, men are aggressive by nature, with animal-like instincts — they are hunters. He has become lazy and apathetic, and patiently dies because he is no longer accustomed to hunting for his own food. They are so accustomed to women chasing them that they have become lazy and unwilling to hunt. By that I mean don’t move to another city, change jobs, or change universities. I can’t begin to tell you how many women have done this and come up empty-handed. Valentine's ideas for every stage of your relationship As a hunter hunts, he is very observant of everything around him.

He must use whatever tactics are at his disposal to get the go-ahead for intimacy from a woman. Some women are notorious for turning a blind eye to the warning signs, even if they’re staring them right in the face.

Instead of those flags just sitting there while you ignore them, let me wave a few of them for you.